If you're a sucker for falling for guys a little bit too fast... Give The Rules a try...
- Never ever ever be available to his every whim and call.
- The first time he asks you out you should be "busy" ... and believe me he'll ask again.
- You should allow yourself a great night, be very interested in him, talk lots and lots asking him open questions - But don't talk so much about yourself, keep yourself a mystery.
- Never text back the minute after hes text. Wait at least 15-20 minutes. (Important to remember in the beginning) Don't say 'Oh well how are we meant to get to know each other?'... You have to make him yearn to talk to you first and you'll only get that by not giving too much too soon.
- The aim is to become a mystery, to be intriguing and never ever needy. If you don't want him to run faster than Hussein bolt don't be needy.
- Never fall in the trap of thinking 'ah, if I sleep with him, he'll like me and I'll keep him.' Big NO NO. believe me you'll know when you've got him interested and it's a sustained not fleeting interest, no there's no timescale, but it's doubtful it's going to happen in 2 weeks.
- It's a process, but if you really like this guy and you think he's worth your time, go through it. You are safe guarding yourself, in fact this allows for you to see his true intentions.
- Being needy leads to heartbreak and upset, which leads to being untrusting and unconfident, when really all you need is some control over the situation in the first place. You give and take that yourself -
Sooo head up and be sure to follow the Rules if you've got no interest in swooping by Heartbreak Hotel.
